Now am I saying that every Little must have a Caregiver with rules they have to obey in order to be fulfilled in the Little lifestyle? Absolutely not, this is just what I was missing. Once Daddy and I sat down and wrote down my rules, as well as the rewards for obeying them and punishments for breaking them, I suddenly felt more safe and secure in Little space. The first time he punished me for breaking a rule, I was so relaxed and content afterward I fell asleep.
So here for your perusal is my lists of rules, rewards, and punishments. I hope that if you are new to this lifestyle, these might give you ideas for your own sets of rules.
My Rules
- No yelling at Daddy.
- No backtalking.
- No hitting Daddy.
- No lying to Daddy.
- No self harm.
- No telling Daddy no.
- When good, expect rewards.
- When bad, expect punishment.
- No sneaking around.
- No ignoring Daddy.
- Always say "yes sir" or "no sir" to Daddy.
- Chores must be done before you can have playtime.
- Bedtime is at 10PM, unless Daddy says otherwise.
- Remember Daddy loves you and wants only what is best for you!
My Rewards For Following Rules
- New stuffies
- Playtime
- Special treats
- Staying up late
- Movie/cartoon night
- Go to the park
- New outfits
- Extra cuddles
- Picnics
- Build-a-Bear Date
- Bathtime with toys and bubbles
- Tea party with stuffies and Daddy
My Punishments For Breaking Rules
- Paddling
- Early bedtime
- Extra chores
- No TV
- Take away paci
- No desserts, sweets, or soda
- Time out
- Writing lines
