I'm not gonna lie, I've been dreading writing this post for several reasons:
- It's a very touchy subject.
- I am fairly new to the Little/DDlg community in the blogging arena, and I'm still getting myself established. The last thing I want to do is anger members of this community.
- As someone with mental issues, I do not enjoy confrontation. I'm a people-pleaser damnit!
Now with all that said, here are my thoughts on underage Littles and underage DD/lg relationships.
My thoughts are all over the place with these subjects because depending on what kind of Little you are, my opinions are different. So, I'm gonna do my best to break this down in a way that is the least confusing for everyone...here goes nothing.
Non-Sexual Littles - To me, a Non-Sexual Little is someone who does age play, regression, Little Space, etc. that has ZERO sexual activity in it. It is more of a therapy tool used to help with anxiety, depression, and other mental illnesses. If you are underage and want to be a Non-Sexual Little because of the above reasons, I'm all for it. However, you must be very careful about what you do, say, and show online because there are hundreds of perverts out there that would love to make you into a different type of Little.
Semi-Sexual Littles - This is a term I came up with to describe myself. A Semi-Sexual Little is a Little that engages in risque activities such as kinky photography while in Little Space, but NOT actual sexual activity. I take sexy photos with my Stuffies, in my onesies, etc. and post them on Fetlife on a regular basis because it makes me feel cute and sexy to do so, and it makes my Daddy happy. UNDERAGE LITTLES SHOULD NOT BE SEMI-SEXUAL LITTLES!! If you are underage and posting risque photos of yourself online, not only are you breaking the law, you are basically ringing the dinner bell for pedophiles everywhere to prey upon you.
Sexual Littles - Sexual Littles are just that, Littles that engage in sexual activities while in Little Space. UNDERAGE LITTLES SHOULD NOT BE SEXUAL LITTLES!! Again, engaging in these behaviors as a minor is ILLEGAL, and you are just asking for trouble.
What About DD/lg? I am going to sound like an old fogie when I say this, but I am against underage Littles being in DD/lg relationships for several reasons:
- Daddy Dom/little girl is an offshoot of BDSM, which is a kink that should only be enjoyed by two consenting, mature adults. Minors do not have the mental capabilities yet to deal with everything that goes along with BDSM...hell, I'm 43 and I still have issues with it at times, so how the heck could a minor possibly handle it?
- Not knowing what you are doing in this arena could cause serious injury physically or mentally.
- Again, this world unfortunately is chock-a-block full of perverts, and not the good kind. I'm talking about pedophiles who disguise themselves as "daddies" and lure in unsuspecting underage littles and do horrible things to them.
So, in conclusion (and if anyone is still reading this) I love my fellow Littles, underage or not and I just want everyone in our community to be safe and happy, and the best way to do that is to not to engage in any sexual Little behavior or try to have a DD/lg relationship when you are a minor. Good things come to those who wait in this arena, and if you are a underage Little you have all the time in the world to experience the sexual side of this world when you are no longer a minor.
